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If you have not heard of Gary Chapman, or The 5 Love Languages you are in for a treat!!
Robert & I have heard of both, and have benefited from understanding just how different our love languages are! You might be wondering why this matters. Well for us we communicate and feel love in vastly different ways. For instance, Robert’s number 1 love language, really his only one, is touch. So to express his love he touches and he wants to be touched to feel loved.
Guess what? Out of the 5 love languages, my last one is touch. So do you see how that disconnect could be an issue? My top one is acts of service. If Robert tells me he loves me by touching and never serving, I never feel loved.
The book The 5 Love Languages has led to the Love Nudge App. This fun app is a great way to figure all this out. Part of the app is the test to figure out your own love languages. Then your partner takes the test to figure them out. Then the app will give you practical ways to express love to your loved on in their own language.
Will this app TOTALLY CHANGE your marriage? No. Only the Lord can truly cause real change in our relationships. However, with this little app we can become more intentional, more aware and more likely to express meaningful love to our loved ones.
So the 5 languages are : words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service and touch. Normally we are divided among two or so and the others are much lower. The test on the app will rank all 5.
The Love Nudge App can help you better express your love! By using this app you can understand a little bit better how someone else feels loved and then choose things throughout your week to express your love. Understanding Gary’s love languages has certainly helped Robert and I understand each other better and helped us realize that we were using our own style of feeling loved to try and express love, and that is not very effective when you have such different love languages!
NOTE : I was offered a copy of The 5 Love Languages in exchange for testing and reviewing the Love Nudge App.